Start with myself. “It’s me, O LORD, standing in the need of prayer! If I have not been loving, show me, LORD, and teach me how to love, as You do, unconditionally!” Honestly ask the LORD to reveal: “What have I done, said, not done, or not said that I need to make right?” Humbly ask the LORD to show you where you have been at fault; confess, repent, and turn away from your sin, and ask the LORD to free you from any bitterness, judgmentalism, grudges, or anything that He reveals has gotten in the way of His Spirit working in your life. Pray: “LORD, I will do whatever it takes to win my children to Jesus and to make them feel welcome in His church.”